merged
khalid and i took a big step last week and merged our bank accounts. as he says, this may even be bigger than our ceremony. well, if not that, it's certainly weirder. it's very strange to think of someone else when making a purchase and wonder what they must think of it. or to check my bank account online and see that money was withdrawn that didn't end up in my wallet. it's also weird to think that i will, in a way, be paying for my own birthday presents next month.
on the other hand, it's definitely what both of us wanted. separate bank accounts aren't really our style. plus it's so nice to just take cash from him when i need it, or to not have a mini arguement at the groceria (no i'll get it this time. no, you got it last time. no - please, just let me get it...). we still have the arguements out of habit, but when we realize, we just look at each other, smile, and one of us quietly puts our wallet away.
i suppose moving in together was our first big step, but that seemed much more natural than this. this is just weird. good weird, but it will definitely take some getting used to.
Comments
it's official now.
PS. miss you and Khalid a lot
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When my husband and I merged our bank accounts, friends were warning us from every direction that it would cause conflict in our relationship and that it would be much safer for us to have separate accounts. Funny, because I think it actually makes life easier! Plus, being unified in our vision of how we want to spend money and having total trust in each other is another reflection of how well we make decisions and function together in unity.
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